We get it now, we already got it. 99.7 percent of teen girls are Smart alecks. So you say she was a bully, well prove it. They werent as bad as you think. Angela Delvecchio : Monica, just let it go. The Angela Delvecchio character played by Kellie Martin is actually the opposite of Bernadette Protti - who was older, taller and blonde - while Kirsten Costas, played by Tori Spelling - was only 15, shorter and dark-haired. I dont think she was, just a teen girl who was like the rest in competition. Columbine has nothing to do with case and you know well that the two cant be compared. Bernadette is still a Pathetic Loser, and always will be. Always had also. Is it respectful to perpetuate lies about a murdered teenage girl due to a fictional depiction? Kirsten had a good family, good life, and then this horrendous event took her life. She is rumored to have "two left feet". Using friends names there, they altered her friends names for Privacy rights. She was a member of a highly selective sorority club called the Bobbies. Wish someone who knew facts would tell us about the real events leading up to Kirstens death. But I dont remember hearing or learning about it until many years later. Im not saying Kirsten was totally innocent, for it takes 2, but to Murder in Cold blood. Bernadette never said it in her testimony, from what I can tell. No justification for Murder. I isolate now due to the fact women have betrayed me so badly. Bernadette had plenty of other friends, she was in that group, Kirsten didnt have anything against Bernadette, if she would of left her alone, eventually they may of became friends, no she couldnt wait, wanted it all right now and pushed and forced her way into it. While she lacked the blond good looks of many of her friends, she had beautiful olive skin, and when she pulled her curly hair brown with golden highlights back from her forehead, her mother thought Kirsten looked like a Vogue model. I hardly knew this girl. You obviously didnt know Bernadette to describe her as Sweet. I wouldnt doubt it cause thats how much she is hated in Orinda. A popular and pretty cheerleader, Kirsten Costas, was dead, and sheriffs deputies were searching for the girl who stabbed her. Thats teens for you, its tough being a teen, most of them are smart alecky at some time or another, but we outgrow it. Kirsten was in the class of 1986, Is He In Jail? So sad her life was shortened. Next to Orinda. Her one friend in the group changed, she now fights for womens right. Teen girls are all like Kirsten was described, dont see how she was worse than any other teen girl around. Bernadette her family says she is suffering from Depression maybe karma collecting. But, it is actually based on another true story about a cheerleader in the midwest whocommitted suicide, hence the lyrics: "Yellow carnations and roses galore were sent to the mother and placed by the door in the spot where her daughter had taken her life ". Bernadette May of been misunderstood to, I thought she was Snooty to. Kirsten liked almost everybody. Kirsten she liked everyone, she wasnt any bully by any means, she was so cute and funny. So this murderer just gets off free after 8 years and gets to live her life because (somebody picked on her)? She wont tell where shes at, cause to many people have it out for her cause of her past. Bernadette was a Sociopath and stalked her, and dwelled on her for Months about Kirsten not liking her when in fact Kirsten had nothing against Bernadette till that Fateful Night. A Murderer, So Kirsten was a Snob, a lot of ppl are, the way she died,was Horrific. Or going by the Movie portrayed, Deadly Women had Kirsten as a down to Earth Girl who loved all. This version stays true to how Protti confessed, which was by writing a letter to her mother, as opposed to confessing to her priest. Really? Im sure today Ms. Stuff, D and Beauty and the Beast could still be the life of the Party if they wanted to be. Maybe LP doesnt want to be the Life of the party. You are full of it. Heres what I think came down, the 2 girls had an argument and Bernadette was afraid she would of been kicked out of the (Bobbies) and excluded from that group. I thought Miramonte was a nice place, if you make good decisions myoumwill make it (popular or not). I have always treated others the way I want to be treated. Im sorry but I disagree. Is it difficult to understand why a person might not respect the opinion of someone else who supports a murderer? I think Bernadette was a lesbian thats why she felt she couldnt have Kirsten tell everyone that she fancied her. I had just got out of high school at that time from north of the bay area Yet it hit us all so close to home the horror of it seemed to change everything in a way all those years ago What brought me here is my own grief at the unsolved stabbing murder of my girlfriend And she resembled Kirsten in appearance and likely even more in personality I pray for Kirstens soul and her family What they have gone through the last 37 years the neverending nightmare it is literally Room 101 Something torn out of you removed an amputee Tortured by the phantom limb You can feel where it was what it was like to have it remember it but its gone. In northern italy they have blonde hair fair and blue eyes . Gripping, sad, and just plain scary, A Friend to Die For premiered in September and was the highest-rated TV movie of 1994 (10 years after the actual murder.) Rene was a lovely girl too who suffered not having opened the door for Kirsten because she was young and scared and didnt know what was going on, or who was at the door. Did you know Bernadettes bff? Defining Feature: Klutzy, younger sister of Tony who is also an Italian mobster stereotype. Not when she was bullied and pushed to her limit!! I hear Bernadette is depressed a lot these days. Shame on you calling a dead girl names. She is Crazy obviously, has enough problems and has to deal with murdering Kirsten and that doesnt help. Oh Im sure they so love having thier names and business displayed for the World to see. If shed been bullied by Kirsten, seems like shed have told it in detail. She was given a sentence of nine years in jail before she could begin her life on her own, but she was granted parole after serving only seven of those years. Any more update regarding Bernadette and the family members of both girls? How tragic she was murdered over basically nothing. Give me an example. I forgive her to a degree, but wont accept what she did to Kirsten, she will live with that the rest of her life. Well youre bullying Kirsten( as Karen said) a dead girl who cant defend herself, that you know nothing about That movie was one sided. Former Front Desk Associate at Planet Fitness. Im not sure shes really sick, I just hear she is, and doesnt leave her home hardly. Put God first. I think NOT! Reading, Pennsylvania, United States I knew nothing about this story until I saw it on lifetime and I actually felt really sorry for Kelly Martin who portrayed Bernadette protti. Bernadette deserved the same sentence as would any get it doesnt matter even if she was a juvenile at the time she.should have been trialed as an adult. Too bad Bernadette couldnt see that.. Sarah, well, MURDER IS NOT AN OPTION!! Nickname: Sugar Pop. Whoever DD is of Kirsten and them didnt like her, its cause she probably acted (Weird) around them. I watched the movie again (both versions) and I have to agree with Miss Kiwi. homely? At the time, sheriffs deputies were searching for the cheerleader who stabbed Kirsten Costas. She killed her cause she was afraid Kirsten would target her as a Weirdo now shes labeled as a MURDERER If she would of left her alone, Kirsten wouldnt of ever bothered her, those TV movies Kirsten wasnt nothing like Tori Spelling, in the 2nd movie a little maybe she was like that girl, but more funnier. Maybe they were all misunderstood. If it hadnt have been for Bernadettes confession, this case probably would remain unsolved. She was also shown to be a self-centered and cruel bully, with her main target for harassment being Goth student Monica Whitley. So some of them will say Orinda had snobs. Rupaul I agree with Miss Kiwi, I believe Bernadette was dangerously obsessed with Kirsten. It is abundantly clear from your comments that you do not have class and were not raised to treat others with respect, you odiously sanctimonious deluded ignoramus. I dealt with it so I know. What is wrong with you? I hear Bernadette dont want anything to do with anyone from her past at all now. Anyone still get on these sites? As for LF aka LP she just disappeared off the map somehow. I love Kirsten think about her all the time. She probaly wanted Bernadette to leave her alone thats all. Executive Director @ Non-Profit Agency. She looked like a nice person that had a good life ahead of her. Youre either Bernadette or her Sister, or a Close friend like Berns BFF. She killed once. Thats a much more obvious motive. If you were a no body she didnt roll with you. The tunehas long been mistaken as a tribute to the Protti/Costas murder case. Sad because K had it all as I saw it. In order to get into the Bobbies you had to have money. The main point so many of you are missing is a beautiful young girl lost her life! I just heard that Kirsten was full of energy and life. If someone from Orinda ran into her, especially one of Kirstens friends, they would probably spit at her. With all this Corona Virus going around, none of that matters, it was 36 years ago, maybe LP or whoever moved on with her life. She would of never Confessed but FBI got involved, and were closing in on her. I wasnt in the Popular, but those girls still talked to me and was friendly with me. She refused to. Kirsten didnt have anything against Bernadette before the murder.So Kirsten made a few comments. She is still remembered for her heinous crime- murdering a young girl named Kirsten Marina Costas in 1984. And back then Bernadette was never going to admit that. As for Bernadette, do I believe she was a nice girl, yes I believe she was, but she became overly jealous that led her to rage and murder. Your comments continue to reiterate the plot for the movie Death of a Cheerleader. Over, if Kirsten bullied B why didnt B use it to Strenghten her Case. I even was smart alecky as a teen, its just something that takes over your mind and body. Whats worse is how the media played into all of this and have portrayed Kirsten as a girl who deserved this kind of horrific attack, nobody deserves to be tricked, stalked and stabbed in cold blood at 15 out any age. That Movie had Tori Spelling kind of a Bully. To them maybe. I dont understand why Kirsten Costas was portrayed as a pretty girl or how she even was some one to be jealous of. Blaming Kirstens parents for her death is the epitome of classlessness and disrespect. She was cute, not beautiful, says Sue Morrow, a family friend, an all-American girl. View the profiles of professionals named "Angela Delvecchio" on LinkedIn. To bad she did cause Im sure she would of grown out of her ways and be a positive influence in someones life today even. This makes sense since shows like Beverly Hills 90210 were all the rage. The bullying, the lies, the jealousy and competition is so toxic and they will murder your soul. Associate Professor Emerita. To much detailed stuff if you ask me. If Kirsten was going to out Bernadette she would of told Alex Arnold all about her. Cause Bernadette was stuck up to, or thats how Bernadette appeared. I was fortunate to be surrounded by guys who were my best friends from 3rd grade and were very popular. I feel sorry for Bernadette. Kirsten Marina Costas (July 23, 1968 June 23, 1984) was an American high school student who was murdered by her classmate Bernadette Protti in June 1984. Karen, its true, Bernadette was obsessed with Kirsten . Kirsten wasnt like whoever (Not True) above article said she had to be snobby at the School there. Even her childhood BFF cant forgive her for such a Horrible Act, if it was drugs or Alcohol she was I. We all have someone we dont like, and we wont be liked by everybody. Bernadette, as described would have known that Kirsten would have thought it weird to be driving around with a butcher knife. Details About His Custody, Dust Bunny: Who Is It? Regardless of what it's called, the important message is the same: bullying has a profound effect on young people and can cause them to do harm to either themselves or others. Former Receptionist Telephone Operator at Lane Insurance, Inc. Former ENTREPRUNEUR at DYNAMAXX International. Cant tell you fi shes still married. I think she had a crush on Kirsten and was terrified of Kirsten telling everyone she was a lesbian. This Mats person youre either Bernadette, or sister, or a very good friend. I didnt kill them. There was this one girl that was so jealous of me, that she spread lies about me to her sorority friends and kept me from pledging her sorority. Im sure you were a big Smart Aleck. Its always so sad when a murder happens to anyone especially a young girl who has her whole life ahead of her. One person said Missy was mean and a bully and she bullied them bad well that person and you are the same, Justifying Murder cause someone was mean, or Stuck up. Most people would be angered and perturbed by that kind of behavior. Interesting. Good luck dear. She acted like Kirsten except Kirsten was (more funny). Kirsten was adorable. Thank God Im out of high school now and dont have to deal with all that social crap. I am almost certain she and Bernadette had words its Obvious, but Kirsten got in the Car with her, Kirsten didnt have anything against Bernadette, Bernadette took it way to Personal till it became Personal and (fatal). Also, Kirsten was upper middle class and lived in a less expensive area than Bernadette. Just some girls on interviews said she was just self absorbed but no bully. I dont care what anyone says to another person, it does not give you the right to kill them. No right to Murder a person. So Kirsten should have been perfectly okay with the fact that Bernadette lied to her to get her out of her house alone and then drove her to an empty car-park and appears to have confessed feelings of admiration for her? She was full of life. As for the Shoes one time comment. Sweet Melancholy my tail. How so? The movie and rolling stone for both girls in a narrative to sell newspapers. Same for Bernadette, but she had to make this choice that will change her life. Following a conversation with an FBI agent who informed her that her arrest was imminent and that they knew that she had killed Kirsten, Protti wrote her mother a letter in which she made a full confession. Kirsten didnt like some of those people cause they rubbed her the wrong way and acted Stupid around her, she definately wasnt down with Stupidity. Community. My comments arent gossip. I still cant believe this individual who killed someone because of jealousy, if she was so down in the dumps they why didnt she just KILL herself?????? I believe Kirsten was going to out her for being weird and tell her weird conversation to her friends and put her at risk to be the butt of jokes. The girls quarreled and Costas fled to the home of Alex and Mary Jane Arnold, telling them that her friend had gone "weird. No, there is good and bad in every person, just the people are guilty for not seeing the reasons that cause that kind of things. Bernadette chased her. Im sure she dont really like Bernadette, and she wouldnt go out to dinner with her, or have her over for dinner or go places with her, and welcome her with open arms. I dont care if she was only 15, murder is murder and she should have been locked away for far longer. Look inwards and think with consideration before you speak. The family became active members of the Meadow Swim and Tennis Club, just a stones throw from their home. She wanted to, but decided not to go through with it. If you want to know what is wrong with her get on her YouTube channel where she makes pies. There is no justification for murder, and I am not siding with the criminals, but you can push someone so far. [4], On June 23, 1984, Costas was lured with a phony invitation to a dinner for the Bob-o-Links, a sorority-like group at school. Tori spelling who actually played Kristen Costas was so incredibly unlikable on screen that she almost felt as though she deserved what she got. I know this because I was there in the same class of Kirsten and Bernadette. My School people didnt accept you, then you were out and ran out, all Schools are like that. You got kids in all school people try to duck away from and avoid. Bernadette may not of paid her dues in the Justice system, shes paid for it online with her haters harassing her and outing her constantly, and her hometown community hated her and still does. I feel for the Costas family. Those girls like Chris she hung with has changed, theyre not like they were in school, Kirsten would of changed also as she got older. If the ones acting like Hoes were demonized while everyone lived happily ever after, why were they demonized. There is no need to BULLY someone who is poor which is what Kristen did!!! The release of Protti was met with vehement opposition from Costass parents. Even if she was, no right to murder her. Smelled so bad. That pain of being relentlessly bullied stays with you your whole life and your self worth is damaged. Her clumsiness makes her a liability on offense, but on defense it almost helps her." Angela Delvecchio (player ID: 3) is a female player and the third of the 30 backyard kids in terms of alphabetical order. But I heard both sides on Kirsten, some say she was a hugging person who liked everyone, like in the Interview of a friend of hers mom said she was a loveable Puppy. I knew both gals. Youre going off the crappy movie. Angela was born to pitch. Yes its ok to talk, but run it into the ground, it gets old after awhile. Kirsten was the energy of the house, says her mother. I do believe she was real nice to those she did like and her friends. I know beauty is all a matter of perception, not that it matters but in no universe would Bernadette be considered better looking. She once told Kirsten to shut up in biology and thats why everyone thought shed done it. Help Center Contributor Zone Polls. Like I said, Kirsten was so much fun. So whoever said Kirsten was mean, and was a B I cant picture that, I didnt know her very well either, we all have a mean side, I never seen it in her. Commuting time shrinks to twenty-five minutes in a BMW, the most popular car at Miramonte High School, where students scores are consistently among the highest on Californias state achievement tests. I was a 1985 highschool graduate.i had skipped a grade so my classmates were more mature physically and socially. Leave a review . She was tried, convicted, and sentenced to a max of nine years, but onlyserved seven years of her time before she was released on parole, to which theCostas family, who eventually relocated to Hawaii,vehemently objected.
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